the amazing grace of sharing songs

by rebecca on November 13, 2012

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I am 17.  I’ve spent more than an hour on my hair. I wear a dress that has absorbed a few swear words while my mother struggled with the sewing machine because the fabric is sheer and every seam is Frenchly pressed.

Still, after all this time with my hair, I’m ready early and my prom date has not yet arrived. My stomach won’t allow food in, so I can’t spend the time calming nerves with chocolate or ice cream.

My mother sits me down at the piano and we begin to sing hymns. How Great Thou Art is helpful because she sings the alto harmony to my soprano. I must attend or I will get lost in her voice. Sometimes she can play the whole hymn on these piano keys and sometimes she plays the left hand and I offer the right.

When Peace Like a River flows easily, and my stomach thinks maybe I will make it through dinner with this boy who will one day celebrate 25 years of marriage on a ranch in Western Colorado with me. The back of my neck relaxes and I breathe deeply. Years later, when this hymn cycles back to me at my mother’s memorial service, it is still well with my soul.

We join our voices to sing Amazing Grace and the sound is sweet indeed.

I am grateful for music. I am grateful for a mother who sings. I am grateful for memory so inextricably tied to song.

I’m grateful for a doctor who invited me to sing to my children. I’m grateful that parenting is a constant invitation to begin again, because today I know things I didn’t know yesterday.

I hope you will join me for this month of soulful gratitude. Leave a comment and tell me what small thing is bringing you happiness. Come talk with me Tuesday, November 20 @ 10am PST/ 12 CST/ 1 pm EST  when we’ll be chatting about the power of melody, harmony and the wonders of recording gratitude.

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Shannon November 15, 2012 at 4:25 pm

My mother used to sing all those songs too, so did my dad. They both had such wonderful voices. Great memories!


rebecca November 16, 2012 at 12:22 am

Love that you got to hear your dad sing, Shannon.


Erin November 15, 2012 at 9:13 pm

Thank you for stopping by my blog today, and for your kind and encouraging words.

I love this blog post. I am a huge lover of music, thanks to my folks as well. My mom plays the guitar and I was up singing duets with her in church when I was three– joined by my sister a year or so later. We still are my dad’s favorite trio and sing whenever we’re together.

And now I sing to my kids, and play music all the time, and we dance in the kitchen and lift our voices and it is so good. I love music. And I pray that my kids will have these sweet memories, remembering Mom singing into the soup label and swooping them around the table. 🙂


rebecca November 16, 2012 at 12:21 am

Singing in church is a lovely memory for me. So glad to have you here.


Margot December 14, 2012 at 2:24 pm

What wonderful memories your songs brought back for me. I have a favorite hymn as well “For the Beauty of the Earth” which makes me smile and cherish the moment every time I hear it.


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